First off, get rid of the guilt. That's one of the biggest problems people have in dieting, and plenty of studies show that worry prevents diet success. You're going to have days where you don't stick to it, so allow those to happen and don't feel bad.
Don't try to cut things out all at once. Going cold turkey will almost certainly lead to bingeing. Much better to gradually cut down to half till that feels normal, then half again etc. And don't cut everything at once either. Concentrate on one or two things to reduce at a time.
It's difficult when your situation means your family don't need to be on the same diet. It's not just about temptation, it's sharing in what your family are enjoying, and feeling part of the family. Maybe you can challenge your husband to see if he can match you for a week or a month, so that he understands it better.
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