Lelly is right - there are some fab SW groups out there. Mine is alot like Lelly's, and like Lelly I'm on the Social Team (pay station)
Our consultant stands close to the door (without playing bouncer
) and welcomes everyone in, especially any new members.
But I've also had a consultant who wasn't the same way inclined and didn't react the same way, so I've seen both sides to it.
Hopefully you've either found a new group, or the original one wasn't as bad the sencond time round?