I adore my hubby, and he and I lost a bunch of weight together years ago. But now, I have gained a bit of it back, just enough to bother me (about 12 pounds). The thing is that he tells me that I look fine and not to worry about losing what I've gained. I know he is just being supportive and there are lots of worse ways for a partner to be. But it just isn't helping me to get motivated!